Family of 6 in PA

so I guess it has been 6 weeks since J came home from school. things have gone from tense, to good, to bad. I don't want to use negative terms. but J is not contributing to a harmonious house. he seems to be refusing to do his school work too but I think that is because Kevin is fucking around about it and not making it HIS priority. throwing out, time to do math! out of the blue or when you are mad is not the way to inspire a child. well the situation sucks all the way around. something has got to change and I think that is kevin and I. but I am too tired to write it all down now.