Monday, September 04, 2006
more drivel
So.....I wrote my dad about my sister and his reply just confirmed what I knew all along, that my sister is a liar and my dad never said what she reported. And he made it clear that he knows how she is. And he was astute enough to point out that her only goal in saying such a thing at such a time was to hurt me and ruin my Colleen's special day.
I am SO done with her. I am sick of her lies and what has become a blatant attempt to ruin my life/my family. Calling K a racist....I'll be the first to admit he has some prejudice, but I won't accept outright lies. WHat my brother reports that K said NEVER happened. It is a complete fabrication. Possibly he misheard a comment K made. But to repeat it to others and base it as a case to prove that K is a racist? I'm done with him too. I used to regret that we did not have a closer relationship. Never again! He can go his merry way without ever crossing paths with me. I'm done with all of them. My oldest brother, well I have my reasons for never wanting a close relationship with him, I couldn't care less if I ever see or hear from him again. My sister, nuff said. My 2nd brother, he's ok, he doesn't bother me and I don't bother him. And then the youngest brother. He is out of the country and out of my life.
My dad, he has his own life, and that's fine with me. We'll keep in touch. My mom, we'll certainly keep in touch but she can go ahead and stick like glue to my sister, that's obviously the way she wants it. She can just stay there in her 1/2 million dollar duplex and enjoy working into her 90's. Whatever! I gotta see if there is a "Grand Parenting for Dummies" book cuz she sure doesn't know how to be a grandma.
My challenge is to try to have excellent close relationships with my children and not raise a bunch of disfunctional people. My sister obviously has serious character flaws and maybe nothing could have helped that. But I need to try to raise my kids better than we were raised. That needs to be my goal in life above all else!
I am SO done with her. I am sick of her lies and what has become a blatant attempt to ruin my life/my family. Calling K a racist....I'll be the first to admit he has some prejudice, but I won't accept outright lies. WHat my brother reports that K said NEVER happened. It is a complete fabrication. Possibly he misheard a comment K made. But to repeat it to others and base it as a case to prove that K is a racist? I'm done with him too. I used to regret that we did not have a closer relationship. Never again! He can go his merry way without ever crossing paths with me. I'm done with all of them. My oldest brother, well I have my reasons for never wanting a close relationship with him, I couldn't care less if I ever see or hear from him again. My sister, nuff said. My 2nd brother, he's ok, he doesn't bother me and I don't bother him. And then the youngest brother. He is out of the country and out of my life.
My dad, he has his own life, and that's fine with me. We'll keep in touch. My mom, we'll certainly keep in touch but she can go ahead and stick like glue to my sister, that's obviously the way she wants it. She can just stay there in her 1/2 million dollar duplex and enjoy working into her 90's. Whatever! I gotta see if there is a "Grand Parenting for Dummies" book cuz she sure doesn't know how to be a grandma.
My challenge is to try to have excellent close relationships with my children and not raise a bunch of disfunctional people. My sister obviously has serious character flaws and maybe nothing could have helped that. But I need to try to raise my kids better than we were raised. That needs to be my goal in life above all else!
# posted by Anne @ 10:05 AM 
